In August I began too see my supposed best friend in a negative light. I needed her to be there for me and she wasn't. It's a long story. This past month she was in the hospital and could have died. I texted her a few times and asked if she needed anything. I got a text that said "okay". I tried to be there for her, but I guess she didnt want me to be. She can never see me because of the fiancé. Who she knows I don't like. He makes me uncomfortable. He has no sense of tact with his actions.
I have not seen her in a month. In the past couple of weeks two of my nieces and nephews ended up in the hospital. I text my friend and just got another response that said "okay".
I was irritated she couldn't even ask how they were doing. When her dad was sick I asked about him several times. I would think that would be the first thing someone would ask.
At this point I just feel like Im done with her. She has become selfish and self-centered. When I think about her I get angry and upset. We also differ in religious and political views. She feels free to talk about her beliefs, but gets angry when I talk about mine.
Last month she was talking about me being in her wedding in a couple of years as a maid if honor. Is it horrible I have no desire to be?
I'm dont think she realizes how angry I am at her. She never wants to talk about it.
We gave been friends fourteen years.
I'm clueless on what to do at this point. Do I just come right out and day I don't want to be friends anymore?
Maybe to ride it out? I just can't think of her the same way anymore.
Sorry for the rant.
I have not seen her in a month. In the past couple of weeks two of my nieces and nephews ended up in the hospital. I text my friend and just got another response that said "okay".
I was irritated she couldn't even ask how they were doing. When her dad was sick I asked about him several times. I would think that would be the first thing someone would ask.
At this point I just feel like Im done with her. She has become selfish and self-centered. When I think about her I get angry and upset. We also differ in religious and political views. She feels free to talk about her beliefs, but gets angry when I talk about mine.
Last month she was talking about me being in her wedding in a couple of years as a maid if honor. Is it horrible I have no desire to be?
I'm dont think she realizes how angry I am at her. She never wants to talk about it.
We gave been friends fourteen years.
I'm clueless on what to do at this point. Do I just come right out and day I don't want to be friends anymore?
Maybe to ride it out? I just can't think of her the same way anymore.
Sorry for the rant.