Riven
Bad Chin
My oldest daughter is 11. She is extremely responsible, with the occasional kid moments that all kids have.
She asked me if she could write on her walls with marker, writing phrases and drawings, like laugh, live, love, Paris!, and other places she'd like to visit some day.
Now, when I was a child I had a room that was my play room, and my mom let me paint it however I wanted, I sponge painted it, and had a giant unicorn mural... I never graffiti'd on anything other than my area, I'm not a criminal, or anything because of it.
My theory is... it's not like she's tearing a wall out. It can all be covered with a coat of paint. It lets her express herself, and I laid down ground rules, like proper spelling, nothing dumb, nothing mean...
My husband is throwing a fit. He asks "what good will come of it", and said what happens when they start writing on all of the walls in the house. Why can't they express themselves in a sketch pad or something.
Firstly, I'd like to think that my kids are smart enough to know the difference between a wall in their bedroom and a wall in mine. I have the paint in the garage to repaint it before he comes home, but honestly I don't see the big deal, if it gets abused it will come to an end. Hailey is now calling herself stupid for thinking of it and feels terrible because John's mad at me and blaming herself for it, although I'm the one who gave permission and even contributed.
I personally think he's worried that it will end up like his half sister, her parents let her do whatever, they have a 3' x 3' purple horse painting covering a broken attic window on the front of their house instead of replacing the window. She has two bedrooms there, one is her "art studio" the other is a tack room and she sleeps on the couch. She is 21 years old.
Thoughts?
She asked me if she could write on her walls with marker, writing phrases and drawings, like laugh, live, love, Paris!, and other places she'd like to visit some day.
Now, when I was a child I had a room that was my play room, and my mom let me paint it however I wanted, I sponge painted it, and had a giant unicorn mural... I never graffiti'd on anything other than my area, I'm not a criminal, or anything because of it.
My theory is... it's not like she's tearing a wall out. It can all be covered with a coat of paint. It lets her express herself, and I laid down ground rules, like proper spelling, nothing dumb, nothing mean...
My husband is throwing a fit. He asks "what good will come of it", and said what happens when they start writing on all of the walls in the house. Why can't they express themselves in a sketch pad or something.
Firstly, I'd like to think that my kids are smart enough to know the difference between a wall in their bedroom and a wall in mine. I have the paint in the garage to repaint it before he comes home, but honestly I don't see the big deal, if it gets abused it will come to an end. Hailey is now calling herself stupid for thinking of it and feels terrible because John's mad at me and blaming herself for it, although I'm the one who gave permission and even contributed.
I personally think he's worried that it will end up like his half sister, her parents let her do whatever, they have a 3' x 3' purple horse painting covering a broken attic window on the front of their house instead of replacing the window. She has two bedrooms there, one is her "art studio" the other is a tack room and she sleeps on the couch. She is 21 years old.
Thoughts?