CJR
the dreamer
So once upon a time, I was at a pet store my friend works at... a customer and their child came in wanting to buy a friend for the chinchilla they currently have. My friend referred them to me. The customer had brought their chinchilla with them and asked me to sex it. The chin was female. The customer then asked what friend would do well with her chinchilla.
I suggested one of the young females that had been recently weaned, because they are friendly, only ten weeks old, and well socialized.
"No, we want a boy. We want to breed them."
This was the first time I'd been presented with this, and I explained to her why it's not a good idea, but she gave me the "well my mom bred chinchillas when I was young and we didn't have any problems" line.
Long story short, I ended up walking away lest I start screaming obscenities. She ended up purchasing a crappy quality male to go with her crappy quality female.
How do you deal with people face to face without offending them? How do you "be nice", so to speak? Please give me some pointers... thanks.
I suggested one of the young females that had been recently weaned, because they are friendly, only ten weeks old, and well socialized.
"No, we want a boy. We want to breed them."
This was the first time I'd been presented with this, and I explained to her why it's not a good idea, but she gave me the "well my mom bred chinchillas when I was young and we didn't have any problems" line.
Long story short, I ended up walking away lest I start screaming obscenities. She ended up purchasing a crappy quality male to go with her crappy quality female.
How do you deal with people face to face without offending them? How do you "be nice", so to speak? Please give me some pointers... thanks.