I agree with Claire and Peggy.
Many people think " us breeders" are insenstive, that chins are just another "one" out there. But they are not. In fact what many people face in issues and heart break is amplified in us, because of the sheer matter of volume we face it more often. To prove my point, I got five older breeders from someone at the Boone show, that was the 23rd, one was not eating well, I figured it was stress, then she got wobblely, I brought her in, she was all bones under her super thick fur, I force feed her, I massaged her tummy, I got meds into her, gave her fluids, I was so happy when I finally got her to eat half a cheerio, that was at 12:30... by 7 when I woke up, not even seven hours later she was already gone. She had malo... Rewind to a week before the show, a white female about 4 months old got sick, was having troubles eating. I brought her in, force feed her, flushed her mouth, I assumed she had something stuck in her teeth or gums, she was eating good and drinking like crazy on her own in no time, she lived on a carrier on my desk, but then Friday came and I had to either move her back to the chin house or take her with... she was doing good, so I moved her to the chin house, no sense in traveling with her... by the time I got back... she was laying in her cage, barely breathing. I tried everything, but she didn't make it. I cried... this was the last kit out of one of my favorite females who I'd since lost. A double whammy in two weeks.
I've pulled and pts some of the friendliest, most wonderful animals because of malo. One was out of prime and third best at Nationals... she ran up to the cage door to meet you wanted pets and scritches. I didn't think it was fair to let her keep suffering, until the end, even though she was skinny and weak, she came to the cage door for me, I cried, but as I could feel her roots breaking through her bottom jaw with my bare hand... I knew it was the right thing to do. I cried, she trusted me.
No one is saying you don't love Lily, or you should take the "easy way out", but sometimes it is about quality of life, about not suffering, about asking what is the best for Lily. It's not easy, we understand, we've been there, more times than many others... Like Pegs said... just because we don't post every time, doesn't mean it doesn't happen, and just because it happens more with more chins, doesn't mean it isn't less hard. What we're saying is be sure to look through all of the facts, will she ever have a normal life, do you know for sure it will work, do you know for sure she won't be in pain...
Didn't mean to take over your thread, but I did want to try to show that we're not insensitive, I worked in a vet for years, I saw people put down dogs because they just didn't want them anymore, or they were getting old and "might" be having problems soon. I also saw people who spent tons of money keeping their animals alive, although they couldn't walk on their own, couldn't even stand up... who were they spending the money for?