Raisinggrace
Mom to chinnie and rottie
*** before you read this just note as a child I have been dealt a good hand and please don't judge me on what I own. I promise I am not stuck up and I always am volunteering at the shelter or horse farm and I genuinely help and care about others. However, I need some help!:hair:
So I basically my aunt and uncle have always tried to one up me in some type of way. It started a few years ago when I got my first 63" tv when the 1080p and all the high def crap came out, well they saw mine and went out and got a 73". then when the iPad 2 came out last year I got myself one for doing great my first year of college and so they went out and bought one too but they got the bigger gigs and pretty much said mine is crap because it only has 16gbs( it was 500$, I'm a broke college student and that's a lot of money). Then they got an iPhone 4 last year and have rubbed it in every minute they could, however I just recently got a 4s from my insuance on my old phone and they were like well that's crap and we have had Siri all along( which is true but it doesn't talk). Then on a trip last month I made the mistake of saying hey I saw these beautiful blue diamonds I was thinking about getting and I'll be damned if they go out and buy them the next day. plus I adopted the love of my life almost two years ago( my dog) from a high kill shelter and basically she is my life, it just so happens she is a rotti/ lab mix and they own two cocker spaniels and they think there dogs are like royal and they just said yesterday well your dog is pretty much worthless because she is a mix( in my own house, nonetheless)... This set me over the edge!!:hair:! My baby girl was saved from death row and beaten by some jack*** before she was dumped there and left to die. I saved her life and would never think twice about doing it again.
So I guess what I am asking now that I have rambled on and on is how do you guys deal with people who always want to one-up you? I am so over this and then they invite my family to a pool party this weekend and I am so dreading going. I guess I'm somewhat ok with them insulting me with materialistic things but when you insult my dog...then I get pissed. So any advice would be greatly appreciated or maybe something I should say to them? They are my aunt and uncle after all but I am just so tired of this being dragged on for years.
Thanks and any feedback would be great but I don't need any negativity. Thanks
So I basically my aunt and uncle have always tried to one up me in some type of way. It started a few years ago when I got my first 63" tv when the 1080p and all the high def crap came out, well they saw mine and went out and got a 73". then when the iPad 2 came out last year I got myself one for doing great my first year of college and so they went out and bought one too but they got the bigger gigs and pretty much said mine is crap because it only has 16gbs( it was 500$, I'm a broke college student and that's a lot of money). Then they got an iPhone 4 last year and have rubbed it in every minute they could, however I just recently got a 4s from my insuance on my old phone and they were like well that's crap and we have had Siri all along( which is true but it doesn't talk). Then on a trip last month I made the mistake of saying hey I saw these beautiful blue diamonds I was thinking about getting and I'll be damned if they go out and buy them the next day. plus I adopted the love of my life almost two years ago( my dog) from a high kill shelter and basically she is my life, it just so happens she is a rotti/ lab mix and they own two cocker spaniels and they think there dogs are like royal and they just said yesterday well your dog is pretty much worthless because she is a mix( in my own house, nonetheless)... This set me over the edge!!:hair:! My baby girl was saved from death row and beaten by some jack*** before she was dumped there and left to die. I saved her life and would never think twice about doing it again.
So I guess what I am asking now that I have rambled on and on is how do you guys deal with people who always want to one-up you? I am so over this and then they invite my family to a pool party this weekend and I am so dreading going. I guess I'm somewhat ok with them insulting me with materialistic things but when you insult my dog...then I get pissed. So any advice would be greatly appreciated or maybe something I should say to them? They are my aunt and uncle after all but I am just so tired of this being dragged on for years.
Thanks and any feedback would be great but I don't need any negativity. Thanks