tristanichole
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So...I guess I need a little vent time; for the good and the bad.
For starters, tomorrow I am going to go see the new Globe University that opened up about 30 minutes from my town. They have a Vet Tech program there. Right now I am going to school completely online for the Vet Tech program and I think that getting a ton more hands on experience would really benefit me. After I see it tomorrow I'll update on my thoughts. I'm excited to see what it has to offer and if it would be a better choice for me.
Now for the other things.
Last June we moved from central WI to SE MN - it was an unexpected move.
Long story short, we were living in one house in central WI and we found a place in the country that we thought would be perfect for us (we have 5 dogs and 5 cats in addition to the other critters and we were living in a lower duplex...we moved to a 4 bedroom country home for the same price). Right when we moved into the country house I found out that I might have cancer...3 months goes by, I have surgery, and I find out I don't have cancer...but what I DO find out is that our landlords want us to leave. We didn't do anything wrong...we were just scammed. They lost their barn renter, had us move in, then someone came along that wanted the barn but also the house...so out we had to go. We had 28 days to find somewhere to go with all of our critters. I searched everywhere...all over the state...and I found this place in MN (right near the WI border). We got to keep everyone, so we were very lucky. What is unlucky...we haven't seen any of our friends in the last year. When we lived in Central WI we saw them if WE went to THEIR town. When we moved 5 minutes from their town we still hardly ever saw them. They are all big into the bar scene and we don't do that often, so I guess we just suck...
Now we're married and I guess we suck even more...We haven't even gotten a phone call from about 98% of them. My husband struggles with this, but I say "oh well..." We're moving up in the world and they are still out drinking and working dead end jobs.
The real kicker, is that my "best friend" hasn't come to see me (with the exception of my wedding). My 7 year old sister pointed out the wrongs in that one the other day...
My husband says its time to just let her go because she only wants to talk to me when she needs a shoulder to cry on...
I'm sick of being everyone's shoulder and everyone's good advice...when is it my turn to have the fun too? She wants me to come there for her birthday in November and I said yes, but now I'm thinking I'm not going to...she can't come here once in the past year, but I have to go there??
None of my friends have responsibilities...or the ones that do don't take care of their responsibilities. When we want to leave town we have to set up boarding for our dogs and a pet sitter for the rest of the animals. When they want to leave town they get in their car and go. On top of that, most of them live with family and don't have much to pay for...I'm married and have been on my own since I was just about 18.
I told my husband that if my August she hasn't made time for me, I'm done with this friendship. She lives in central WI and can travel an hour north every weekend, or she can travel 2 hours to Madison to hang out with another friend on just about a monthly basis...or how about the fact that she is in Milwaukee (a good 4 hours away) for 4 days drinking it up at Summerfest??!! I have no problem with drinking...I'm pretty good at it :laughitup: but the fact that she hasn't made time for me one single weekend during the entire last year is absurd...
I do nothing but give advice to this girl when she needs it, give her a shoulder to cry on when she needs it, laugh with her when she needs it...but I get nothing back. I go to central WI quite often to see my family and have seen her a few times during the last year just meeting up at my mom's...
As far as the other friends go...when I've made plans in the past (before we moved) I've tried to organize things so that we can meet up with them at a certain time (I don't see what's wrong with that)...and all I get is **** talked about me for having to organize things "why can't they just show up" is what we have said about us...
Ugh...*sigh* I don't even know why I try anymore....I think I'm on the edge of being done...
For starters, tomorrow I am going to go see the new Globe University that opened up about 30 minutes from my town. They have a Vet Tech program there. Right now I am going to school completely online for the Vet Tech program and I think that getting a ton more hands on experience would really benefit me. After I see it tomorrow I'll update on my thoughts. I'm excited to see what it has to offer and if it would be a better choice for me.
Now for the other things.
Last June we moved from central WI to SE MN - it was an unexpected move.
Long story short, we were living in one house in central WI and we found a place in the country that we thought would be perfect for us (we have 5 dogs and 5 cats in addition to the other critters and we were living in a lower duplex...we moved to a 4 bedroom country home for the same price). Right when we moved into the country house I found out that I might have cancer...3 months goes by, I have surgery, and I find out I don't have cancer...but what I DO find out is that our landlords want us to leave. We didn't do anything wrong...we were just scammed. They lost their barn renter, had us move in, then someone came along that wanted the barn but also the house...so out we had to go. We had 28 days to find somewhere to go with all of our critters. I searched everywhere...all over the state...and I found this place in MN (right near the WI border). We got to keep everyone, so we were very lucky. What is unlucky...we haven't seen any of our friends in the last year. When we lived in Central WI we saw them if WE went to THEIR town. When we moved 5 minutes from their town we still hardly ever saw them. They are all big into the bar scene and we don't do that often, so I guess we just suck...
Now we're married and I guess we suck even more...We haven't even gotten a phone call from about 98% of them. My husband struggles with this, but I say "oh well..." We're moving up in the world and they are still out drinking and working dead end jobs.
The real kicker, is that my "best friend" hasn't come to see me (with the exception of my wedding). My 7 year old sister pointed out the wrongs in that one the other day...
My husband says its time to just let her go because she only wants to talk to me when she needs a shoulder to cry on...
I'm sick of being everyone's shoulder and everyone's good advice...when is it my turn to have the fun too? She wants me to come there for her birthday in November and I said yes, but now I'm thinking I'm not going to...she can't come here once in the past year, but I have to go there??
None of my friends have responsibilities...or the ones that do don't take care of their responsibilities. When we want to leave town we have to set up boarding for our dogs and a pet sitter for the rest of the animals. When they want to leave town they get in their car and go. On top of that, most of them live with family and don't have much to pay for...I'm married and have been on my own since I was just about 18.
I told my husband that if my August she hasn't made time for me, I'm done with this friendship. She lives in central WI and can travel an hour north every weekend, or she can travel 2 hours to Madison to hang out with another friend on just about a monthly basis...or how about the fact that she is in Milwaukee (a good 4 hours away) for 4 days drinking it up at Summerfest??!! I have no problem with drinking...I'm pretty good at it :laughitup: but the fact that she hasn't made time for me one single weekend during the entire last year is absurd...
I do nothing but give advice to this girl when she needs it, give her a shoulder to cry on when she needs it, laugh with her when she needs it...but I get nothing back. I go to central WI quite often to see my family and have seen her a few times during the last year just meeting up at my mom's...
As far as the other friends go...when I've made plans in the past (before we moved) I've tried to organize things so that we can meet up with them at a certain time (I don't see what's wrong with that)...and all I get is **** talked about me for having to organize things "why can't they just show up" is what we have said about us...
Ugh...*sigh* I don't even know why I try anymore....I think I'm on the edge of being done...