I'm going to begin by saying my brother is not a nice person. He is arrogant and full of himself. He made my own childhood miserable from my teenage years into my twenties. He called me a fat witch with a B daily for years. I don't even like my brother as a person. but he is family so I do love him as a sibling.
He does not treat my niece as well as his own children. He has been married to his wife for ten years, since my niece was three. He has four biological children. The oldest is 8.
My niece is only thirteen. My niece is often treated as a mini adult, and expected to babysit her siblings. If something happens with the kids when she is babysitting it is her fault, no matter what in my brother's eyes.
Her biological father is still in the picture and she visits him often.
I will often talk with my niece alone and it is clear she does not really like my brother. He treats her as less of a person than his own children. She tells me about the way he treats her, and it makes me angry. He treats her the same way he treated me when I was her age, minus the name calling.
I don't feel like I can confront him on it. My parents occasionally say something to him about it, but he blows it off and nothing changes.
I don't know what to do, or if I can do anything. If I confront him with how I really feel both he and his wife will be angry. Or if it's even my business?
He does not treat my niece as well as his own children. He has been married to his wife for ten years, since my niece was three. He has four biological children. The oldest is 8.
My niece is only thirteen. My niece is often treated as a mini adult, and expected to babysit her siblings. If something happens with the kids when she is babysitting it is her fault, no matter what in my brother's eyes.
Her biological father is still in the picture and she visits him often.
I will often talk with my niece alone and it is clear she does not really like my brother. He treats her as less of a person than his own children. She tells me about the way he treats her, and it makes me angry. He treats her the same way he treated me when I was her age, minus the name calling.
I don't feel like I can confront him on it. My parents occasionally say something to him about it, but he blows it off and nothing changes.
I don't know what to do, or if I can do anything. If I confront him with how I really feel both he and his wife will be angry. Or if it's even my business?