Jadebf700
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So I have this friend who is making probably the biggest mistake of her life. She is getting married to the father of her child. She has tried this relationship probably 4 or 5 times now and it has failed EVERY time. This time she claims it is different.
Now this guy has NOT been a good father. He took Lily for a night and they found alcohol in her system 2 days later! He has smoked with her in the room and such! Has had a hard time holding a job and has had quite a few off and on girlfriends in a short period of time.
So my hesitation is purely because I don't want to loose contact with her for her daughters sake. When infants go through the only mom phase, she still came to me and let me hold her. I feel like any time I wanted to see her I could call and go get her. Last time I got her, she had sour milk in her cup and I just want to make sure she is ok.
Also, they are planning to have another kid!!! Starting to try in October! They can't afford another kid and I feel like they are barely capable of handling the one they have now! Oh and she is not telling anyone else they are married... I am it...
Why would she do this now!!!
Now this guy has NOT been a good father. He took Lily for a night and they found alcohol in her system 2 days later! He has smoked with her in the room and such! Has had a hard time holding a job and has had quite a few off and on girlfriends in a short period of time.
So my hesitation is purely because I don't want to loose contact with her for her daughters sake. When infants go through the only mom phase, she still came to me and let me hold her. I feel like any time I wanted to see her I could call and go get her. Last time I got her, she had sour milk in her cup and I just want to make sure she is ok.
Also, they are planning to have another kid!!! Starting to try in October! They can't afford another kid and I feel like they are barely capable of handling the one they have now! Oh and she is not telling anyone else they are married... I am it...
Why would she do this now!!!