caiti
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When I came back to my apartment last night, I learned my roommate's cat may have scratched one of Chloe's toes. My roommate informed me Chloe was barking for an hour on saturday and later she found out her cat was in my room for a good while. She didn't check on Chloe when she was barking repeatedly. When she first told me this I got mad. I thought about it for more than a second and decided not to say anything to her or let on I was irritated. She's doing me a favor by watching Chloe on weekends I go home. I have no right to be mad at her for something she is not responsible for.
It got me thinking that maybe I should start bringing Chloe home with me regularly. So I know she will be watched and I have an actual door to my room (not made of plywood). I did have issues with my parents wanting to keep their house at a temperature that is not optimal for a chin, but during the winter this would not be an issue. It's the age old child-trying-to-convince-their-parents-what-they-want-to-do-with-their-own-house debacle. They keep the AC off as much as they can to save money, and also keep the heat off as much as they can to save money so it works to Chloe's advantage in the fall and winter.
I pretty much go home every other weekend since the semester started. I used to go home once a month maybe. Basically, I am miserable where I live. I have completely given up on making friends or talking to people since last summer after everyone I knew here graduated. I am depressed and don't want to be here. I've been going through medication changes to find a good anti-depressant and my therapist "dumped" me because I am not reliable enough due to my lack of motivation to go. I have at least one year left of school and one thing that keeps me sane is knowing I can go home and see my friends there and my family (plus I have a boy there and I consider relationships a special form of mental illness on their own so I am that much crazier).
Blah blah, I'm sad and cry cry cry. Look at me--the ball of sunshine over here. I know things will change, at least in some way--for better or worse so I'm not looking for pity I'm trying to stress that it is important for me to go home as often as I practically can. But I also worry about Chloe the whole time I am gone. It seems my choices are to stay here more often and wallow in my inability to cope with life (woohoo!!), but be able to take care of Chloe and find some joy in that or start seeing if she will handle regular travelling and be a little less stressed.
I know a handful of members have frequent travelling experience with their chins, some daily I believe. I would like to set up her travel cage that is in my room at home so I won't have to transfer her tubes and hammocks every time. I have a few extras of things, and I would like to get some more shelves in there. I think this would make her more comfortable with more frequent moving. Does anyone have any more advice as to how to make regular travelling most comfortable for a chin--or thoughts on the situation as a whole, whether you agree, disagree or think an alternative is better? Thanks.
It got me thinking that maybe I should start bringing Chloe home with me regularly. So I know she will be watched and I have an actual door to my room (not made of plywood). I did have issues with my parents wanting to keep their house at a temperature that is not optimal for a chin, but during the winter this would not be an issue. It's the age old child-trying-to-convince-their-parents-what-they-want-to-do-with-their-own-house debacle. They keep the AC off as much as they can to save money, and also keep the heat off as much as they can to save money so it works to Chloe's advantage in the fall and winter.
I pretty much go home every other weekend since the semester started. I used to go home once a month maybe. Basically, I am miserable where I live. I have completely given up on making friends or talking to people since last summer after everyone I knew here graduated. I am depressed and don't want to be here. I've been going through medication changes to find a good anti-depressant and my therapist "dumped" me because I am not reliable enough due to my lack of motivation to go. I have at least one year left of school and one thing that keeps me sane is knowing I can go home and see my friends there and my family (plus I have a boy there and I consider relationships a special form of mental illness on their own so I am that much crazier).
Blah blah, I'm sad and cry cry cry. Look at me--the ball of sunshine over here. I know things will change, at least in some way--for better or worse so I'm not looking for pity I'm trying to stress that it is important for me to go home as often as I practically can. But I also worry about Chloe the whole time I am gone. It seems my choices are to stay here more often and wallow in my inability to cope with life (woohoo!!), but be able to take care of Chloe and find some joy in that or start seeing if she will handle regular travelling and be a little less stressed.
I know a handful of members have frequent travelling experience with their chins, some daily I believe. I would like to set up her travel cage that is in my room at home so I won't have to transfer her tubes and hammocks every time. I have a few extras of things, and I would like to get some more shelves in there. I think this would make her more comfortable with more frequent moving. Does anyone have any more advice as to how to make regular travelling most comfortable for a chin--or thoughts on the situation as a whole, whether you agree, disagree or think an alternative is better? Thanks.