deliamaj
love my chins!
Okay so a lot of similar questions have been asked and I read all the replies but I didn't feel like most of them applied to my situation? So here it is, in lots of detail (sorry it's so long but I am really hoping for some specific feedback on their particular behaviors.)
I have had my chins Elena and Tseng (bonded altered male/female pair) since last September. So about 8 or 9 months. After a few months Elena stopped being completely terrified of me, but there haven't really been any bonding advances since then. When I got them the foster family who was taking care of them said that it should be okay if I gave them extra treats for a week or two to help get them to trust me. But when I toned down on the treats, since I know over treating them isn't healthy, they started to lose interest in me. I found something healthy they could eat more frequently but they still considered a "treat" - alfalfa. This seems to have backfired. When I enter their room or come near the cage, they run to the bars but all they want is food.
When they are out Tseng will come to me and beg. If I don't give him anything he walks away. Elena will not even approach me unless she thinks I have given Tseng a treat and she wants one too. If I give her something she won't eat it near me. If I don't, she runs off. If I move too suddenly to offer something to her (or for any reason) she takes off running. After some work I trained Tseng to jump in my lap, but again, if I have nothing for him, he's gone. They are just completely uninterested in me whatsoever unless I have food.
Then there is the holding thing. They do not like to be held or picked up or really touched at all. Elena takes off running if I even reach toward her. Once in a while if Tseng is really into eating something I can pet him very softly. I try to do this as often as he will let me to get him used to my hands. We had a major setback when he got sick and stopped eating. I had to grab him and hold him still to syringe feed him. He has not forgotten.
I tried that thing where you hold your hand in the cage to try to get them to (eventually) jump on it. This does not work on them. The only time it sort of worked it took Elena 45 minutes to decide to try climbing on and I lifted her out of the cage and she leaped from my hands in a panic the second she cleared the cage door. She never tried that again. Tseng developed his own response. Once he established that I had no food and his only way out of the cage was with my help, he went to sleep in a corner. Even playtime was not worth being carried. (And this was before he got sick!) I have pretty much given up on trying this method. Are there any other ways that might work better?
I just have no idea how to train them at all. I can't think of any positive reinforcement but a treat and this has not had the desired effect, and I don't want to use negative reinforcement because they do not need to be even more afraid of me (anyway I think it's been clinically proven that negative reinforcement doesn't work as well.) I'm at a loss at this point. I know chins aren't fuzzy teddy bears to be carried around but I would at least like them to be interested in my presence for some reason other than food, and I would like to know I can pick them up if necessary without having to find gloves (Tseng bites when he's angry). Everyone says having a pet is supposed to be this rewarding experience but it gets really depressing being either considered a food dispenser or ignored all the time.
Any advice would be appreciated. Sorry this was a novel but lots of facts seemed relevant. Thanks,
Dani
(mom to Elena, Tseng, Max, and Rudy)
I have had my chins Elena and Tseng (bonded altered male/female pair) since last September. So about 8 or 9 months. After a few months Elena stopped being completely terrified of me, but there haven't really been any bonding advances since then. When I got them the foster family who was taking care of them said that it should be okay if I gave them extra treats for a week or two to help get them to trust me. But when I toned down on the treats, since I know over treating them isn't healthy, they started to lose interest in me. I found something healthy they could eat more frequently but they still considered a "treat" - alfalfa. This seems to have backfired. When I enter their room or come near the cage, they run to the bars but all they want is food.
When they are out Tseng will come to me and beg. If I don't give him anything he walks away. Elena will not even approach me unless she thinks I have given Tseng a treat and she wants one too. If I give her something she won't eat it near me. If I don't, she runs off. If I move too suddenly to offer something to her (or for any reason) she takes off running. After some work I trained Tseng to jump in my lap, but again, if I have nothing for him, he's gone. They are just completely uninterested in me whatsoever unless I have food.
Then there is the holding thing. They do not like to be held or picked up or really touched at all. Elena takes off running if I even reach toward her. Once in a while if Tseng is really into eating something I can pet him very softly. I try to do this as often as he will let me to get him used to my hands. We had a major setback when he got sick and stopped eating. I had to grab him and hold him still to syringe feed him. He has not forgotten.
I tried that thing where you hold your hand in the cage to try to get them to (eventually) jump on it. This does not work on them. The only time it sort of worked it took Elena 45 minutes to decide to try climbing on and I lifted her out of the cage and she leaped from my hands in a panic the second she cleared the cage door. She never tried that again. Tseng developed his own response. Once he established that I had no food and his only way out of the cage was with my help, he went to sleep in a corner. Even playtime was not worth being carried. (And this was before he got sick!) I have pretty much given up on trying this method. Are there any other ways that might work better?
I just have no idea how to train them at all. I can't think of any positive reinforcement but a treat and this has not had the desired effect, and I don't want to use negative reinforcement because they do not need to be even more afraid of me (anyway I think it's been clinically proven that negative reinforcement doesn't work as well.) I'm at a loss at this point. I know chins aren't fuzzy teddy bears to be carried around but I would at least like them to be interested in my presence for some reason other than food, and I would like to know I can pick them up if necessary without having to find gloves (Tseng bites when he's angry). Everyone says having a pet is supposed to be this rewarding experience but it gets really depressing being either considered a food dispenser or ignored all the time.
Any advice would be appreciated. Sorry this was a novel but lots of facts seemed relevant. Thanks,
Dani
(mom to Elena, Tseng, Max, and Rudy)