Isabella Whateva
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Ok so here's what's going on with my girls right now.
Banilly has lately been getting a little aggressive towards both me and my fiance. Every since we moved her into the FN (around the beginning of the summer) she won't let us pick her up while in the cage. In the old cage, the door was small, and we could kind of just hold out hands outside of it and she'd jump into our hands and let us hold her for a bit.
Now, if we open one door to the FN and she's standing on the floor, she'll bite HARD at our hands and then jump down. I always get upset about this cause she's on the top level and it's kind of a big jump. I used to just pull my hands away when she bit, but then I realized it was teaching her that biting gets her way, so now I use my hand to push her back a little while I close the door. She keeps biting me and makes the angry grumble sound (the first link on this page: http://www.chinchilla-sounds.de/wutzrn_e.htm). Sometimes if she's sitting on one of her top ledges, she'll jump into my hands like she used to, but when she's on the floor, she ALWAYS gets angry. She runs back and forth for a few seconds, and when I put my hands in front of her she chomps. This can be a problem, cause when we open the door to refill her food or hay box, she'll do the same thing.
Luckily, the room the cage is in right now is chin-safe, and I just let her run around for a few minutes before putting her bath or carrier down on the ground (she always jumps right back into both of them.) Sometimes though if I need her back in the cage right away (I'm late for work or class) I'll grab her by the base of her tail. This makes her SO MAD. She does the same noise at me. I really really, hate doing it because I feel like it's hurting our bond, but sometimes it's the only way to get her back in the cage.
Banilly has always been the "bossy" chin (as I call her) and has never been a cuddlebug, but she would always at least let me hold her for a few minutes before she got down to play. I also really need to figure out a way to hold her still; both the chins feet have been dry and Pudge had a cracked foot a few weeks ago. Putting on bag balm is an epic battle every time. Sometimes with Banilly I can't even do it, because she's biting and struggling so much.
Is there any advice on how to tame my beast? I love Banills and I miss being able to hold her. I know chins aren't snuggly animals, but this just seems a little different than her normal behavior. Nothing significant has really changed that could trigger this behavior besides buying the FN. I know us moving to a new house didn't prompt it, cause she started acting like this when we bought the FN in May (we didn't move til July.)
Now Pudge on the other hand is the complete opposite. She's kind of a snuggly girl and will let us hold her and put bag balm on her feet. The only problem is that she's SO timid. True, we only got her in August from Craigslist and she didn't really get much human interaction in her old home. She's just always skittish and easily startled. One of our fleece liners is a little too big, and every time it's in the cage, she pulls is up and hides under it for hours. Banilly is upstairs from her, and all night she jumps around on her shelves. Poor Pudge seems so scared and is always running and hiding in her tube. I just wonder if there's anything else we can do. Are we doing something wrong? I try to let her have play time a couple times a week and she seems a little more outgoing after it. Do you think I should try to increase playtimes, or do you think it will make her more nervous? The chin room is pretty big (12' x 12')and sometimes I think she gets overwhelmed by all the empty space.
Anyway, sorry for the longest post ever. I'm just so frustrated. I try so so hard to make these girls happy and I'm really worried about them. I want to do everything I can to have the best relationship with them possible.
Banilly has lately been getting a little aggressive towards both me and my fiance. Every since we moved her into the FN (around the beginning of the summer) she won't let us pick her up while in the cage. In the old cage, the door was small, and we could kind of just hold out hands outside of it and she'd jump into our hands and let us hold her for a bit.
Now, if we open one door to the FN and she's standing on the floor, she'll bite HARD at our hands and then jump down. I always get upset about this cause she's on the top level and it's kind of a big jump. I used to just pull my hands away when she bit, but then I realized it was teaching her that biting gets her way, so now I use my hand to push her back a little while I close the door. She keeps biting me and makes the angry grumble sound (the first link on this page: http://www.chinchilla-sounds.de/wutzrn_e.htm). Sometimes if she's sitting on one of her top ledges, she'll jump into my hands like she used to, but when she's on the floor, she ALWAYS gets angry. She runs back and forth for a few seconds, and when I put my hands in front of her she chomps. This can be a problem, cause when we open the door to refill her food or hay box, she'll do the same thing.
Luckily, the room the cage is in right now is chin-safe, and I just let her run around for a few minutes before putting her bath or carrier down on the ground (she always jumps right back into both of them.) Sometimes though if I need her back in the cage right away (I'm late for work or class) I'll grab her by the base of her tail. This makes her SO MAD. She does the same noise at me. I really really, hate doing it because I feel like it's hurting our bond, but sometimes it's the only way to get her back in the cage.
Banilly has always been the "bossy" chin (as I call her) and has never been a cuddlebug, but she would always at least let me hold her for a few minutes before she got down to play. I also really need to figure out a way to hold her still; both the chins feet have been dry and Pudge had a cracked foot a few weeks ago. Putting on bag balm is an epic battle every time. Sometimes with Banilly I can't even do it, because she's biting and struggling so much.
Is there any advice on how to tame my beast? I love Banills and I miss being able to hold her. I know chins aren't snuggly animals, but this just seems a little different than her normal behavior. Nothing significant has really changed that could trigger this behavior besides buying the FN. I know us moving to a new house didn't prompt it, cause she started acting like this when we bought the FN in May (we didn't move til July.)
Now Pudge on the other hand is the complete opposite. She's kind of a snuggly girl and will let us hold her and put bag balm on her feet. The only problem is that she's SO timid. True, we only got her in August from Craigslist and she didn't really get much human interaction in her old home. She's just always skittish and easily startled. One of our fleece liners is a little too big, and every time it's in the cage, she pulls is up and hides under it for hours. Banilly is upstairs from her, and all night she jumps around on her shelves. Poor Pudge seems so scared and is always running and hiding in her tube. I just wonder if there's anything else we can do. Are we doing something wrong? I try to let her have play time a couple times a week and she seems a little more outgoing after it. Do you think I should try to increase playtimes, or do you think it will make her more nervous? The chin room is pretty big (12' x 12')and sometimes I think she gets overwhelmed by all the empty space.
Anyway, sorry for the longest post ever. I'm just so frustrated. I try so so hard to make these girls happy and I'm really worried about them. I want to do everything I can to have the best relationship with them possible.