Ok, now that you explained this in more to me. I am definately on your side with this. Legally they cannot do anything to you. Do you still have the copy of the lease that you signed? Seriously, it's a legal binding document, yes, but they can't add or change it once you have signed and agreed to it unless you signed the new one.
Sorry again about the rules changing at your apartment complex. That does really suck for you!
Yeah, my boyfriend is in the Army He's stationed back in NC, so it is a little difficult, but he finds time to come visit one weekend every month. I went through the whole basic thing, it's difficult, so if you ever need to talk about anything, I'm here.