Riven
Bad Chin
I am a "things" hoarder. Not like the ones on TV, but mostly of "sentimental stuff".
I have FIVE, yes FIVE kitchen tables... I only have one kitchen.
I have an Edward Fyke table with a matching hutch that was my great grandmothers... the table is in the living room and covered with a cloth so the cats don't scratch it and I use it to put my plants on. The hutch is also in the living room filled with odd and end sets of dishes and glasses passed down from people we don't know ( John's side of the family ). the table and hutch don't match anything in my house which is almost all light wood walls and it's cherry.
I have a 5 leg oak table that needs to be refinished, my great grandparents' on the other side... I have an antique drop leaf which I bought when I lived in Columbus and it's half stripped ( I keep thinking about keeping it for when my girls move out because it's great for an apt. sized place ) and I just bought a solid oak antique table that I really liked and couldn't pass up for ... $25 ( yea that was a steal ).
In the kitchen is a table my mom and grandma bought me when I graduated and moved into our house. It's oak, but needs refinished... It's a "made in China" lower quality edition, but if cared for properly it could last a long time.
This is how it is. I end up keeping all of this stuff, then I feel cluttered, and there are things I don't use, or don't match but I feel like I NEED to keep them because they are all gifts or family heirloom type things...
How can I get over this? My mom looked at me weird when I told her I bought a new kitchen table and then I felt like she was upset I didn't want the one they bought me anymore... I'm sure if I asked her she would say do what you want, you're the one who has to eat at it... It's like I'm so worried about disappointed my family by saying I don't want this stuff, and I know that I'm the only one who would take care of it, other than maybe one of my cousins, the rest don't give a rats behind about this stuff, they'll just basically destroy it. Like the Edward Fyke table, my grandma remembers how her mom saved up for that table for a really long time...
What do I do?! How to I stop this?!
I have FIVE, yes FIVE kitchen tables... I only have one kitchen.
I have an Edward Fyke table with a matching hutch that was my great grandmothers... the table is in the living room and covered with a cloth so the cats don't scratch it and I use it to put my plants on. The hutch is also in the living room filled with odd and end sets of dishes and glasses passed down from people we don't know ( John's side of the family ). the table and hutch don't match anything in my house which is almost all light wood walls and it's cherry.
I have a 5 leg oak table that needs to be refinished, my great grandparents' on the other side... I have an antique drop leaf which I bought when I lived in Columbus and it's half stripped ( I keep thinking about keeping it for when my girls move out because it's great for an apt. sized place ) and I just bought a solid oak antique table that I really liked and couldn't pass up for ... $25 ( yea that was a steal ).
In the kitchen is a table my mom and grandma bought me when I graduated and moved into our house. It's oak, but needs refinished... It's a "made in China" lower quality edition, but if cared for properly it could last a long time.
This is how it is. I end up keeping all of this stuff, then I feel cluttered, and there are things I don't use, or don't match but I feel like I NEED to keep them because they are all gifts or family heirloom type things...
How can I get over this? My mom looked at me weird when I told her I bought a new kitchen table and then I felt like she was upset I didn't want the one they bought me anymore... I'm sure if I asked her she would say do what you want, you're the one who has to eat at it... It's like I'm so worried about disappointed my family by saying I don't want this stuff, and I know that I'm the only one who would take care of it, other than maybe one of my cousins, the rest don't give a rats behind about this stuff, they'll just basically destroy it. Like the Edward Fyke table, my grandma remembers how her mom saved up for that table for a really long time...
What do I do?! How to I stop this?!