It is interesting with Trixie. She is 4 now, almost 5 years old. We have had her since she was abiout 4 months old. When she was younger, she loved being held..or at least tolerated it well. In fact, she was in every way a "daddy's girl", she loved having him hold her. He has very big hands, and hed cup his hands around her and she would settle right in, and just sit there. Once, after he had held her for a few minutes, as he wanted to get up. I went to reach for her (she saw me comming, so she was not startled) and she kacked at me..several times. As if saying, I am comfortable here, do not take me.
Also, when I would sit by her cage, she'd let me take her, and hold her to my chest. She would sit there and just let me stroke her.
Now she likes being held just for short periods. Though last evening, she snuggled into my arms and seemed to want to stay ther. But I think she was a bit stressed by the fireworks.