I'm offically stupid then.. last night I had trouble figuring out the new Chat, too. Like I'd set it to "All users" and it'd still direct the message to a specific member, so it looked like I was trying to say something private to them but didn't check "Whisper" when I was actually addressing everyone. AUGH! I had fun though, especially talking about string instruments with some other people.
Sorry it has been crazy. One of my best friends was diagnosed with a fast growing uterine tumor so I was helping out with her and her kids. On top of which, the GM for the restaurant was let go so any free time I had was between those two places. Some other stuff but suffice it to say very busy.